Wednesday, July 28, 2010


My Sister-in-law sent this to me today.  I thought it was lovely.  The picture at the end says it all and made me want to share it with you.  I may not be able to "physically" see my blogger friends but, through our posts I feel as if I have bonded with you.  I think of all of you frequently and include you in my prayers.  I pray that: Java settles into her new job and discovers that she truly loves  it.  That Claudia finds a sense of peace through the care and compassion she gives to her patients in hospice.  That Green Monkey finds that same sense of peace through her writing.  That the grief and pain felt by both Green Monkey and Claudia eases a little more each day until their pain is replaced by memories of happy moments they spent with their loved ones. 

To all my blogging friends:  Enjoy this post and pass it on to the ones that you are thinking about.

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This explains why I forward email's.

A man and his dog were walking along a road.
The man was enjoying the scenery,
When it suddenly occurred to him that he was dead.

He remembered dying, and that the dog walking beside him had been dead for years.
He wondered where the road was leading them.

After a while, they came to a high, white stone wall along one side of the road.
It looked like fine marble..
At the top of a long hill, it was broken by a tall arch that glowed in the sunlight.

When he was standing before it, he saw a magnificent gate in the arch that looked like mother-of-pearl, and the street that led to the gate looked like pure gold.

He and the dog walked toward the gate, and as he got closer, he saw a man at a desk to one side.
When he was close enough, he called out, 'Excuse me, where are we?

'This is Heaven, sir,' the man answered.

'Wow! Would you happen to have some water?' the man asked.
Of course, sir. Come right in, and I'll have some ice water brought right up.

The man gestured, and the gate began to open. 'Can my friend,' gesturing toward his dog, 'come in, too?' the traveler asked.
'I'm sorry, sir, but we don't accept pets.'

The man thought a moment and then turned back toward the road and continued the way he had been going with his dog.

After another long walk, and at the top of another long hill, he came to a dirt road leading through a farm gate that looked as if it had never been closed.
There was no fence.

As he approached the gate, he saw a man inside, leaning against a tree and reading a book...

'Excuse me!' he called to the man. 'Do you have any water?'
'Yeah, sure, there's a pump over there, come on in.'
'How about my friend here?' the traveler gestured to the dog.
'There should be a bowl by the pump,' said the man.

They went through the gate, and sure enough, there was an old-fashioned hand pump with a bowl beside it.
The traveler filled the water bowl and took a long drink himself, then he gave some to the dog.

When they were full, he and the dog walked back toward the man who was standing by the tree.
'What do you call this place?' the traveler asked.  

'This is Heaven,' he answered. 

'Well, that's confusing,' the traveler said.
'The man down the road said that was Heaven, too.'
'Oh, you mean the place with the gold street and pearly gates? Nope. That's Hell.'

'Doesn't it make you mad for them to use your name like that?'

'No, we're just happy that they screen out the folks who would leave their best friends behind.'

Soooo. Now you see, sometimes, we wonder why friends keep forwarding stuff to us without writing a word. Maybe this will explain it.

When you are very busy, but still want to keep in touch, guess what you do? You forward emails.

When you have nothing to say, but still want to keep contact, you forward jokes.

When you have something to say, but don't know what, and don't know how.... You forward stuff.

A 'forward' lets you know that you are still remembered, you are still important, you are still loved, you are still cared for.

So, next time if you get a 'forward', don't think that you've been sent just another forwarded joke, but that you've been thought of today and your friend on the other end of your computer wanted to send you a smile.

You are welcome at my water bowl anytime


Kalei's Best Friend said...

Wow, this made me think... Reminds me of when my husband passed, our dog was looking for him for the longest...Then she passed.. I bet they are together!

Karen Mortensen said...

Waht a very wonderful post. Thank you.

Linda said...

Beautiful. Happy and sad all at the same time.

Margo said...


Ellen Stewart (aka Ellie/El) said...

Never Grow Old sent me here...well your link did.

I love that you pray for your blog friends. What a kind heart you have. I too pray, and I always hope the person I'm praying for can feel that someone cares as God listens.

Peggy said...

That was just beautiful!
I am now following you through
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Peggy Gorman

Cherie said...

This is a very cool story! Thanks so much for following on my blog. I look forward to getting to know you.